Sometimes what you need…

Sometimes what you need is for someone who loves you to show up. To hold you up when all you want to do is crash.

Sometimes what you need is for someone who loves you to show up. To hold you up when all you want to do is crash. Allowing you to finish what you started, even when the “best” thing would be for you to stop.

There are few story’s that can really capture the power of love and the grit of courageous determination. The Derek Redmond story is one of them.

Many are familiar with this almost mythical tale. But for those who are not it goes like this.

Sometimes what you need is for someone who loves you to show up. To hold you up when all you want to do is crash.

Derek Redmond was an olympic sprinter from Great Britain. In 1988 his hopes of olympic glory were dashed due to an injury to his achilles tendon. For the next four year he trained for another opportunity to compete on the olympic stage. In that time he also had several surgeries due to injury.

When the 1992 Olympics came around, Derek did well enough to qualify for the olympic team. In the semi-final of the 400 meter sprint, he looked like he would do well enough to go on to the finals. But with about half of the distance left to finish, Derek’s hamstring tore, taking him to the ground.

In what can only be described as shear determination, he got up and tried to hobble his way to the finish line. With each step the pain in his leg increased. With each step his will to finish growing weaker.

Then, from out of stands, an older man is seen coming onto the track. Ignoring security, pushing them aside, the man made his way to Redmond.

That man was Derek Redmond’s father, Jim.

While fighting back tears and enduring the pain of a torn muscle Derek and his father made their way to the finish line.

All those years of training and whatever aspirations of olympic glory there may have been, they ended that day. On that track.

But a different story was written. One that inspired countless millions since that fateful day and became a living testimony to the power of love.

Sometimes what you need is for someone who loves you to show up. To hold you up when all you want to do is crash.

We all want to believe that we can do it on our own. That we can make it in this world without the help of others.

But every now and then, when the world in which we live sends us what feel like insurmountable obstacles, someone steps in and gives us the helping hand we need to finish.

The story of Derek Redmond is great, not because he finished first and won the gold.

The story of Derek Redmond is great because he endured to the end of the race. Fighting back tears, suffering through pain, and with a little help from his dad.

Lent 2018 | Day #1: Self-Denial

When we know how loved we are by God we should make every effort to love others.

The season of Lent is a time where we are called to look at the totality of our Christian journey. The reason for this inspection is to better appreciate the glorious reality of the Gospel AND to better understand the implications of that same Gospel.

If we claim to have experienced the new birth, then we must not shy away from this process. To engage in introspection is to challenge ourselves to stoke the fire of faithfulness. We are not merely to be the beneficiaries of God’s goodness. We are to be the distributors of the same mercy that we have received. In many ways, this is the simplest and clearest way of demonstrating that we value God’s grace. If the Gospel of Jesus is good news to us, then it should also be good news to others.

It can be difficult to see this connection, but the truth is that we all find ourselves on the same sinking ship. We all are in need of saving from the same situation—our sin. Therefore, to recognize the predicament that we are in is to see the need that everyone we encounter has. My need and their need are the same. We may describe it differently or talk about it differently, but it is the same. We are all on the brink of eternal disaster.

This is why I feel that on this first day of Lent we should look at self-denial. We cannot share with others the message of hope if we are hindered by fear, doubt, or pride. In truth, it does not matter the reason. We have to value the reality of redemption in Christ, we have to esteem it greater than any and every obstacle we can conjure up. We must deny ourselves, not because we have some sort of self-esteem problem. No, we must deny ourselves because the very nature of sacrificial love should call us to care for our neighbors with the same love God has demonstrated in Jesus.

It is in this sense that we are called to love our neighbors as ourselves. When we know how loved we are by God we should make every effort to love others similarly, however imperfectly we end up doing it.

A Perfect Match: A Story of Love and Marriage, In Sickness and in Health

Justin gave to his wife in actuality what most men only give in theory. Justin gave of himself.

I have known this wonderful couple for a long time. The circumstances of life and geography have moved us in different directions. However, we are fortunate to live in a world where technology allows you to keep up with the goings on of anothers life.
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